On October 31, 1994 - 15 years ago - I started a temporary job at a department store financial centre. I had just hit bottom, and I mean rock bottom, in my emotional life. In fact I'd just been diagnosed with depression, which in hindsight I realized I'd been suffering from for years.
So, I walked into this building to start a temp job, you know the kind, very little money in return work you do. But a paycheque is a paycheque. I walked in and my supervisor met me at the elevator - dressed as a devil!! It was Halloween, and everyone was dressed for the occasion.
That first morning, I met someone I knew and she invited me to join her and a group of others for coffee breaks and lunch. I took her up on the offer, and one of the guys at the table was sitting there doing the crossword puzzle from the Toronto Star newspaper. Peter and I used to do crossword puzzles at work (Peter is a friend who died just days before I started this job, part of the reason for "hitting bottom". Anyway, this guy was sitting there, and I peered over and gave him one of the answers, then another, then another.
Over the course of the next several days we worked on the crossword every day (along with the others at the table, but mostly he and I). I distinctly remember saying to myself "He's a nice guy, but he's not my type". After more than a week, he asked me out for coffee. We sat in the coffee shop and talked for hours.
Then he invited me over to his place for dinner. I wasn't sure, I mean I didn't really know this guy ... who knows what I could have been walking into! But I went, and we had dinner and watched a movie. Next thing you know I'm driving him home after work, and we are getting together in the evenings.
One day, after a few weeks of seeing each other, we were having a morning coffee break together and we went in different directions back to our desks he whispered to me "I love you", and then walked away. I was stunned, I didn't know what to say or do. I thought about it all day, and after work, as I drove us home I remember saying to him "You can't love me, I'm too neurotic!" No-one can say he wasn't forewarned!!!
It turns out that I fell in love with this guy "who's not my type". We've now been living together for almost 15 years and married for 2 years. I guess somewhere along the line he became my type!!!
Taking that temporary job back in 1994 was the best thing I ever did!!!
Happy Anniversary Honey!!! Love you! xoxoxo